I get those questions ... my son calls himself by a female name - yet he is dating a full woman. They are living together. She is actually a good match for him, it's a good relationship. But do they consider themselves lesbians? Is the estrogen he is taking affecting their 'activities'? He rock climbs and is so obviously male it's bonkers. Thank the Lord he seems to not be interested in any life altering bottom mutilations ... literally thank the Lord and I pray this over every other parent dealing with this type of situation.