Most men aren't like those described by Julie or Amber. Most men care and respect women. Most men have to deal with the same assholes from a different perspective because most men who taunt and harass women also taunt and harass men - it's in their nature. So most men are tired of the years/decades of deflecting alpha BS directed at every male of the species. So maybe, and I'm just saying maybe that's why they didn't rise to the occasion when witnessing someone woman being harassed. They suffer from Alpha Male Fatigue. Living a life in a hypervigilant state sucks. With that said I too am sorry for whatever Julie or Amber or any women might go through with men. It's what happens when men have too dominant a role in society and "make the rules" and why women need to be equal partners. Women are a modifying factor in life - all of life - and without their input, without their compassion, ALL men suffer. That's how this whole f**king system is set up - it's interactive and interdependent. We all need to change. But I differ from you Steve in one way - It would be Haagen Dazs chocolate chocolate chip.