That any of us even feel a choice in avoiding the bad news in these moments is possible shows the subtle and insidious ways privilege works. It allows us to have urgency as an option, where for others it is a necessity.

Many people are fighting for their very lives right now, and the idea that they could or would opt out isn't a consideration for them. It shouldn't be an option for any of us if we aspire to be fully functioning humans in times when inhumanity is prolific.