Do I like a comment to show that I read it and that it contributes to my thread? And then respond with a comment regardless? Or only respond if I have something to say in the moment? But what if that person wrote a long comment? Does mine need to be just as long?
And then if I know there's risk of me forgetting to leave a comment, do I hold back the like, and use that instead to keep track (in my Activity) of comments I still need to reply to; even if it means I might keep forgetting or never get to it, which would result in that comment getting neither a like nor a comment?
But then if I do leave a comment that took me 5 minutes to draft, should I instead restack their comment but with my response now as a note, for the benefit of my followers, without that person agreeing for their vulnerable note to be restacked?
Finally… is this what it feels like to be a neurodivergent female learning how to mask?