lessons ⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️

whatever you need right now in life, you probably need patience to hold it.

sweet potato hoe cakes, 10/10.

women from the south will all ways hold no punches, if you want honest reflection, be prepared.

as you age, your honesty around sensuality is related to how your environment both religious and lived has fashioned you. pressure is worser and you will desire connection more, lean into whatever that looks like. or not. (May Allah make it easy for me — my husband should hurry) 😭

Black people have no business playing any kind of card or board games, we all have deep rooted issues with trust — probably joining them to play monthly.

Matriarchs don’t really get a chance to put anything down. When you see your elders having fun take pictures, record, and stop to really notice what’s happening. safety around younger people isn’t just familial, it’s healing.

do not and I mean do not go to the line dancing club with no heels on. (mind you, I knew this) this is not the place for that. mandatory to have good tennis shoes that you can bop in because this is not a two hour function, be prepared to be there for as long as a trail ride lasts.

grief will show up and show out anywhere, let it.

not moving back south and understanding lineage may be more about survival than recollection, talking more about this soon. 🤭