Some additional perspective to the topic of "not liking hosting" for dads. Could it be that the bar for hosting is too high and they don't like how much cleaning/prep they are asked to do or their partner getting all stressed out about it? Is it that they have no control/input into the guest list and therefore aren't as excited about the selected guests? I think there is an opportunity to build a shared vision for what kind of hosting works for a family, rather than merely getting dads to agree to do it, and this post has lots of great jumping off points for that conversation.