This is very astute. I have often said that woke is about revenge more than anything else. You unpacked my broad assertion nicely. Thank you!

Also, as a victim of child abuse, I have to say, overcoming a victim mindset, no matter the genesis/catalyst, is a very tough spiritual path. Particularly if the people who abused you aren't willing to admit it or repent - which would make forgiveness much easier because at least the harm would be "acknowledged."

I recently confronted one of my abusers (there were several since I had bio, foster, and adoptive parents) to no avail. So, now it's on me to figure out how to move forward without the harm ever being acknowledged. I know the right path is to forgive and move on. But, I don't feel this in my heart. It's a tough nut to crack.

I get the desire for revenge. I also see that it's not a solution. Justified rage is seductive and feels good - probably a chemical high in the brain.