Who do you want to become?
Do you know who she truly is?
Your future Self.
Can you imagine her clearly?
Do you believe she will naturally have it easier than you do now?
Or are you healing childhood wounds so she won't face your unresolved fears that don't serve her?
A friend had asked me what my single value was. She said if I had more than 1, then I had none. After days of listing my values and crossing off ones that could be combined, I realized all my "top 5" values did roll up into 1! That was eye-opening!
Before this exercise, I was healing and moving forward with ambition, but not from an anchor of an inner goal. Now, I test each decision against my identity value and feel comfortable that no matter the outcome, I'm moving forward with intention and grace.
I know who I want to become.