I shared a seat on Amtrak with a woman near my age. While I unbuttoned my dress to feed a fussy baby, she was girlbossing. She typed up a spreadsheet, barely seeming to notice me or the baby, even when the baby broke out into uncontrollable giggles and tried to make eye contact with her. She was well dressed and pretty. I felt a little frazzled. But I had time to read a bit while the baby napped on my chest. By then she was scrolling on her phone and clutching a small stuffed animal. Although she had the window seat, she never looked out the window until I pointed out the scenery to the baby. Even then, she didn't smile.