I can’t wait for a catch up with friends where I have absolutely nothing of note to say. No news here! No big headlines, flashing lights or *PERSONAL UPDATES!!*. I can talk about the menu in front of us, mull over whether I want bread as well as the burrata that comes with bread and even maybe offer an agony aunt shoulder to somebody else in a way that only comes with experience and a sense of knowing that my chaos has finally converted to something useful.