I’m on my second marriage.

My first wife, Cindy died by suicide.

We were together for sixteen years

As a few days ago, I passed a milestone that feels so very right to me.

My wife Tanja, officially became my longest relationship.

It seems fitting because I’ve never loved another human being like I love her.

Of course, I loved Cindy with all my heart.

But Tanja’s helped me expand my capacity to love.

She knows me better than I know myself.

She believes in me, sometimes more than I believe in myself.

She’s walked beside me through shadows she didn’t create.

She’s loved parts of me that were still healing from a story she didn’t live.

She’s been a lighthouse as we navigate the loss of our daughter.

She’s my best friend, and she’s my person.

She also reminds me that she chooses me each day, so I’d better stay on my damn toes.

I love you babes. So much.

Thank you for this life.

She’s also an incredible writer Unpalatable by Tanja Rohn