This is one of the many reasons I chose not to have kids. Call me selfish. Fine. But I want my time, damn it. And I want to focus on my passion. I want to travel. I want to keep the fire between my wife and I.
I've seen a lot of creative people get one-shotted by having children - just a total and utter collapse into despair because they can no longer rely on old routines to create work. I admit I had my whiny moments in the beginning, but at some point I had to let go of my preciousness about "lost time" and my puttering, self indulgent routiā¦
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