Parents with Primal Question #1: “Am I safe?” compulsively tell their kids, "Be safe!" every time they leave the house. 

I know because I am one of them.

What we really mean is "Keep me safe." Because when our kids walk out the door, part of our heart is going out into the dangerous world.

Self Leadership looks like releasing control and reminding yourself that YOU are safe, even when you can’t control every outcome for your kids.