Not sure which Primal Question is driving your life? 

Ask yourself this: "Which one wrecks me most when the answer is no?”

1. Am I safe?

2. Am I secure?

3. Am I loved?

4. Am I wanted?

5. Am I successful?

6. Am I good enough?

7. Do I have a purpose?

The question that creates the most chaos, the biggest emotional spiral, the most intense reaction. That's the one.