Years ago, I went through 12-step to recover from codependency. Here are a few signs of codependent behavior:

• Loving others with an agenda, hoping they will want you in return

• Owning someone else's problems more than they are willing to

• Bending the truth to make others more comfortable

If any of these sound familiar, here’s the good news: 

Codependency is a learned behavior, which means it can be unlearned.