The thing with motherhood is you aren’t just doing the;

invisible load of parenting and mental maths of anticipating logistics and needs;

or the daily physical, emotional care and entertainment;

or living up to disproportionate societal expectation;

You are dealing with years of

• Identity shift

• Postpartum and prenatal body shifts

• Nervous system tension

• Longer term hormones and brain changes

The sacrifice we make for our family is huge.

That’s why the day to day - whose doing more on that given day fight is irrelevant

There’s a bigger picture here we must look at as to why women have poorer mental health outcomes after children than male partners