This year, my hope was that July 9 could pass by unnoticed. I knew that wasn’t realistic, but we came as close as possible to what I manifested. We did not give a random day in July more power than it needs to have! I gave myself space. In some ways it felt like I slipped out of time for a few days. We did nice things for ourselves. We sought out moments that helped us feel closer to Han. 🩵 We cried and that was just fine.