Draw 3 cards that tell you where your family toxicity actually started (hint: it's never where you think)Most people pull cards asking "why is my mother like this?" or "why does my family keep doing this to me?"

Here's what works instead:

Pull three cards and ask: Before her. Before him. Before the story I was told. Let the cards go back one generation further than you think you need to go.

Card 1: The wound that was never named in your family line.

Card 2: Who carried it first.

Card 3: What it turned into by the time it reached you.

If you're experiencing toxic family behavior, it probably didn't originate with the person causing it now. It got handed down like a keepsake nobody wanted but nobody threw away. Your cards will show you the origination point if you ask them to look backward instead of inward.

These were my three cards. What were yours?

(Whimsical Witch Tarot)