The 'man penetrates, woman receives' script has become so deeply ingrained in us that just fantasizing about reversing the roles already feels like the naughtiest thing you can imagine. I love to question current norms (also the basis of my book Unbound). That makes life more fun, provides room for personal interpretation. But sometimes it's also important to move forward. Here's the ultimate 'flip the script' for you. To read via Vrij Nederland: vn.nl/nemen-of-genomen-… (if you don't have a subscription, you can get a free 30-day trial, I highly recommend it).