It was hard to miss, because it was right in our faces...the bullying, the hare-brained demand that we accept males in our midst, not only as women, but as LESBIANS. But even then, I was in the minority. A lot of womem felt bad, because we'd been so oppressed ourselves that we wanted to be kind. A lot of us thought, what's the big deal? How many of them could there be? LOL. Not.