If you want a prime example of why personal stories matter, read the comments on Giulia Rozzi’s essay “Please Don’t Tell Me How to Feel About My Breast Cancer.” They’re full of people who’ve experienced similarly problematic responses and are also ready to say “fuck off” to those misguided (even if well-meaning) sentiments.

WRITE YOUR STORY. IT MATTERS. TO YOU, AND LIKELY TO SOMEONE ELSE.