I feel for all of the Christian men and non-Christian men struggling to find a wife. Here is my recommendation from a 70-year-old who has been happily married 44 years with three daughters - two of which are married with their own children and the last one in a serious relationship that will hopefully lead to marriage.

Go to a older married Christian couple whom you trust and respect (if your own parents don't fit the bill) and ask them to help you find a wife. This may sound very old-fashioned, but I know from my own experience many older married Christian couple know single Christian women who are looking for marriage and family.

Not only ask them to help you find a spouse but ask them to disciple you in preparing for marriage. From what I am reading on this site is you are on your own - or looking to some internet influencer for help. You are not on your own - and internet influencers are looking for clicks and subscribers.