If you’re already dreading the moment someone at your Thanksgiving table says, “Let’s go around the table and share what we’re grateful for”… I get it.

It’s fine, but, in part because it’s so predictable, this question rarely sparks specific, juicy, unexpected answers.

So this morning, I put together a 40 Magical Questions cheat sheet (including many from GROUP LIFERS!) that actually light up a table. Questions with specificity, surprise, and a little heat, like: “What’s a hobby you don’t have but secretly hope someone here could teach you?”

Check out the full list here:

And tell me, what would you add to this list?!