Does language play a part in how we connect with people?

After more than ten years living in Germany, can I still let it be an excuse?

I choose not to absorb too much from my surroundings. It can become overwhelming.

I choose not to ask too many questions. I struggle with some words.

I choose not to probe too much into other people’s lives, in case of mistranslations.

But I wonder if others living in a foreign land feel this too.