My boss called my Polo Ralph Lauren cashmere a sweatshirt. In front of everyone. I donated it that week. Twenty years later I'm finally considering cashmere again — and I have a lot of feelings about that.

New piece on the impossible, unwritten dress code for professional women in corporate. If this hits home: join me & Amy Benavides this Thursday, April 2 at 4:45pm EST for a live conversation on exactly this — “when our appearance helps us fit in vs. stand out”

Come with your work wardrobe stories. I'll bring mine!