Don't think I don't know how blessed I am for having him! Yesterday was our 30th anniversary. Maybe you will be the one like my husband. Being the kind one in the face of the snit thrower. He wasn't always like that. He said he was tired of fighting with me and asked God to direct his path. It was a wake up call for me. I asked God to close my big mouth and to start treating my husband like who he was to me - most important after God. It isn't perfection. But it will be one day.