Also can we stop acting like a person’s spouse controls their opinions?? I am sure most of us don’t always agree with our spouses on all subjects. And saying because someone graduated from XYZ college or whatever defines them—I am and always have been a conservative but I went to an extremely leftist small liberal arts college. That’s what leftists do, say X person is in this profession, this race, this sexual orientation, drives this kind of car, graduated from this college, so must vote like this. No. People are individuals and the groups they are part of don’t define them.