Online male spaces are detached from reality.

While the incels say women only want status/money, and the “looksmaxxers” say it’s all about sexiness, what women are actually saying they want are behaviors and virtues that have to be measured offline.

Do looks matter? Sure. Do women generally want to marry into unemployment? No. But the festering sexual resentment in so much of the Internet is rooted in people eating up false narratives day after day.