Just like your initial essay, this was very well said. As a small comment I’ll add that male dancers can and do marry female dancers. Take Tyler Peck as an example. nycballet.com/discover/… She’s the principle dancer for the New York ballet. By any conceivable metric, she’s also strikingly beautiful. Her husband is another dancer for the ballet. You don’t need to be full of MOS bullsh*t, you need to be true to yourself.