I saw that viral video of Kamie Crawford saying, “I’m not a girlfriend, I want to be a wife.”

And I felt that.

Dating with intention. Holding high standards. Refusing to entertain anything that doesn’t align with the life you actually want.

Speak that, beautiful Black queen 👑

Because I feel the same way. I’m manifesting that same energy.

In my opinion, any woman who truly wants that life, the husband, the stability, the soft life, has to be clear about what she wants.

Say it. Stand on it. And don’t waste your time shrinking your standards to fit someone who was never meant to meet you there