It is very selfish, as a man, to talk so much that you rob your woman of the opportunity to fantasise about you.

Men are considered problem solvers in the material world. That is true.

But what is also true is how women love to problem solve and sensually wrestle with the image of you that they’ve conjured up in the mind.

It is wickedness to give yourself away entirely, unprompted and unearned.

You yearn to yap.

It is cruelty.