Evening porch family…

Before you watch this, I want to tell you something.

I didn’t ask her to do this.

This is my best friend out in Oregon… and she sent me this video on TikTok out of nowhere.

And I just sat there for a minute after I watched it.

Because she’s been checking on me every single day… asking how I’m feeling, what the doctors have said, what I need, what comes next… she knows all of it.

There’s nothing in that video she doesn’t already know.

And I don’t think I’ve ever really said this out loud on here, but… I’ve always been the kind of person who just handles things.

I don’t lean.

I don’t ask.

I figure it out and keep it moving.

So hearing someone who knows me that well say it all out loud like that… it caught me off guard a little.

In a good way. In a hard way. Just… a real way.

What she’s talking about is real.

I’ve been trying to get answers about something going on with my health, and it hasn’t been simple. Not like it should be.

And this part right here… this doesn’t come easy for me.

But I love her for this.

So I’m just gonna let her speak.

If it touches you, if it reminds you of someone who’s shown up for you like that… maybe pass it along.

That matters more than anything.

And… I’ll say this gently—

If you feel it in your heart to help, you can do that at my Buy Me a Coffee link… but please don’t feel like you have to. I mean that. Just you being here, listening, sharing… that’s already more than enough to me.

I don’t have all the answers right now…

but I can tell you this

I am the richest woman in the world in the kind of love that shows up for me.

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