Being the Value You Want to Attract

I've been thinking about value lately.

We often focus so much on what we want to attract - better opportunities, meaningful relationships, genuine connections - that we forget to ask ourselves a crucial question:

Am I being what I'm trying to attract?

And so, I have made it a habit to have quick check-ins with myself, asking:

If I met someone exactly like me, would they bring the value I'm looking for?

Sometimes the answer makes me uncomfortable.

But that's where growth begins.

And continues…

Isn’t it?