Paul, toward the end, you ask for Janice's "magic wand" solution. I have one, first suggested by the great Daniel Amneus, the first real scholar to address these matters: father custody in divorce. Mother custody (codified in "no-fault" divorce) was the feminists' greatest victory. Taking it back would cut the Gordian Knot and break the back of not only the custody machinery but feminism generally. I am increasingly convinced he was right. The dynamics and logic driving feminist power point to it unmistakably. You may not agree, but it would be worth a full debate.