Aha! 😁 Yeah, I've seen you have some version of that discussion a few times. I don't feel like there's any need for me to deal with it. Occasionally there's an overdose of defensiveness, when you're the one who's guilty of it, you recognise it and apologise if you came off badly.

This is an absolute model for conversations whether online or not. It truly tops up my faith in humanity to see it.

We're all going to get defensive about something or other. We all have those fears that makes us less rational than we are at our best. The ability to recognise that and learn from it is the only game worth playing. And we've gone along pretty smoothly with our one-man moderation team precisely because everybody here is smart enough to realise that. Even if not always immediately.