"Probably to get her own Special goodbye. This makes me sick."

😅Every time I hear about something like this I'm reminded of this video (https://youtu.be/bX9FgvXZXZ8) from all the way back in 2019. Yes, I absolutely think she wanted her own goodbye. And indeed I think that most of these narcissists want the entire world to be tailored to their feelings in that moment. Neo-pronouns are another perfect example of this.

But yeah, I do consider transgender people separate from non-binary people, just as I consider the LGB community separate from trans people. There is overlap, and some people in each group have been convinced that they're all fighting the same battles, but the mindset and aims of these groups are meaningfully different.

I've seen a few people write about pronouns on Medium without being banned, so I think it's possible. But yeah, it'll take some care to write something that can't be mischaracterised as "hateful" by people acting in bad faith. I'll figure it out eventually!