No ‘Phobia’ Involved
Let us make this real simple...
I don't care if you're gay or straight, bio or trans. I do not care about your shade of skin nor shape of body. Christian or Buddhist, Muslim, Hindu, or Pagan... don't care.
Indeed, I will even respect your right to identify however you wish. I shall do this by granting you the most sacred gift I can offer: My complete and utter indifference.
I. Do. Not. Care.
It is not at all complex. You live your life, return to me the same courtesy (which means making no demands on my choices or thoughts or speech), and we're golden.
However...
If you are targeting children, of any age and in any manner whatsoever, or using your 'identity' to justify and/or satisfy your twisted perversions, you have crossed a dangerous line and will be held to account.
We, the decent people - of all the stripes mentioned above - are fed up with you and your sinister ways.
We. Are. Done.