This lawsuit has nothing to do with intolerance and racism and I do not support it. It's impossible to tell from your one-sided account whether the child suffered from any actions of the school authorities, but as a general principle I'm opposed to the idea that parents have any right to exercise cultlike milieu control over their children. If they don't know about their child's gender identity issues it's for one reason and one reason only, and that is that they haven't earned the child's trust. The school's responsibility is to keep their own trust with the child by not going behind their back.