Uncertainty asks us to trust in the unknown. Life has no guarantee and at times the rawness of it can often make us want to check out. But the mess, the feeling around in the darkness - the uncertainty, is the whole experience. Both art and parenting would cease to exist without it. Imagine going into a family home and their house is spotless. No toys, no marker stains on the walls, no signs of children other than their presences. Wouldn’t that make you deeply suspicious? The mess makes it alive!