This one paradigm shift scares the right immensely. It undercuts one of their biggest recruiting tools. If men are content, are kind, are willing to learn and grow and are not interested in being constrained by a narrow and limiting conception of masculinity, we’re not such easy marks. We’re not so willing to buy the idea that we have to be domineering, harmful to women, “alphas” and all that nonsense. That makes us less susceptible to a political and cultural ideology based on oppression. That makes us less vulnerable to the lies of the right.