Be more like danielle (𝓇𝒶𝓌 & 𝒻𝑒𝓇𝒶𝓁). If everyone were, the world would be a far more interesting place. But on the other hand, we might not appreciate the ingenuity of her creativity, so perhaps it’s just as well the way it is. Don’t fear embarrassment, fear convenience*!
* This is, by the way, how I try to explain Swedish culture to expats. The reason people act the way they do often comes down to that word. It’s convenient to “not do the thing”, “stay with that person”, or “never change jobs”. And let me tell you this: convenience is not your friend.