She's the family photographer. Which means she's also the family's most missing person.

Think about it. She's behind every birthday cake shot, every first day of school, every Christmas morning. She captured all of it. But scroll back through those albums and she's mostly… absent.

We've let her disappear into the role of documentarian.

Mother's Day is this Sunday. Before you hand her flowers or brunch or a card, hand her your phone — and ask her to stand still for once. Get in the frame with her. Make her someone in the story, not just the one telling it.

Decades from now, your kids won't remember the resolution. They'll just want to see her face.

Get in the photo.