In my 40s, Iβm confident and more patient because, I believe, you have witnessed so much life thus far, and maybe went through a few, or alot, of losses. You appreciate life a little more. You slow down a little and just live. And as you just live and push through life, the words come. Thatβs if you have something to say. The words flow out with wisdom and grace. Youβre grown.