Hi Steve! This is one of the first essays of yours I’ve read in at least a year after dropping off the face of the internet. It’s been a very interesting and disturbing one. I left twitter, TikTok, etc. a long time ago so I miss a lot of these happenings. As someone who’s quite present in my local queer and trans communities, I was absolutely horrified reading the many posts and articles you linked. It definitely confirmed my decision to stay off those circles of the internet, but also gave me a lot of insight into the fear of and opposition to trans people. The behavior you outlined in this article is genuinely abhorrent and also a very accurate representation of the fears I hear cis people expressing. Like exactly. And it was very interesting because this kind of stuff would be so quickly condemned in my personal social circles, so I never understood where all these fears were coming from. I’d like to think that the majority of real trans communities are the same and that the crazies flock to X, but I can’t be sure. I have a question though! At what point would you say a trans person could/should use a restroom they identify with? Would you ever consider it acceptable? Only if they fully pass as cis and nobody would think otherwise? I’m curious!