This is one of those things that people just do not understand.

Yes I know, more than anyone (believe me!) that I need to look after myself, in order to be the best version of me that I can so that I am able look after my person, but please, tell me, where in the 24hrs of the day that I’m putting their wants and needs first do I have time to even think of myself, let alone actually do something to take care of myself?

Every day is a daily battle between making sure they have exactly what they need, and me just getting through it. Barely functioning properly, with just enough energy to wash and feed myself, let alone make any time for “fun” or hobbies.

Not looking after myself because I’m looking after someone else who’s needs are of a higher priority right now does not mean I’m failing personally, it means I am human and only have so much to give. Thank you The Weight of Caregiving for reminding me of this! 🙏🏼