The problem isn’t whether you spend 3 hours or 24 hours a day with your kid, the problem is the myth that if you can just ‘mom’ the ‘right’ way you’ll unlock a world in which mothers are no longer underpaid, overworked and unsupported in ways that don’t allow mom to make these choices freely to begin with.

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