I know that there are a lot of racialized spaces that expect yt ppl to be self flagellating and over compensating in their spaces, but it does nothing for me.

Literally nothing.

I’d much rather you actually shut up and actually listen and actually learn and actually do better as much as you announce you will or are “trying to”.

Otherwise it just feels like I’m participating in some kink you have that I didn’t consent to being a part of.