Marriage is an achievement.

You can be right.

Marriage is not an achievement.

You can also be right. It's all about understanding the situation and seeing it from the right perspective.

So like this if I later marry my soulmate like this, one silly person would try to dilute it with the statement “Marriage is not an achievement”…Ahnnn, are you okay? Is something doing you? For the love of my life and my bone and my soul. You dey talk say no be achievement kee? E go be one of the greatest achievement of my life oo. I go even brag oo.

And for the latter, let's say this girl got married and then she's trying to pepper all her friends who are unmarried because she's left the single zone and she did so desperately, no be say na love sef, na let's just marry so we can answer married couple. So this kind person wants to start dragging her friends 'you unfortunate girls that don't have man.’ Aunty, abeg shut up. To get married to the wrong man is a liability and a curse not an achievement and even if peradventure he is a good man, why do you feel the need to insult others?

Well…las las everybody go understand life and we go all dey alright 😌