TALE AS OLD AS TIME! Listen up! You call things selfish that are not selfish because you were taught — your BODY was taught — to ignore itself. You became an extension of your parents’ needs. And your body now believes that when you’re not acting on behalf of someone else, you’re gross or you’re sick or you’re in danger or you don’t exist at all. The very hard work you need to do right now is to LET PEOPLE LEAVE YOU. Let them see you clea