That part about "you can deport someone but only if they're approached gently and politely.." They are not saying that. What they are saying within earshot of me is: "White people have no idea how much brown and black people suffer, the horrible conditions they have to live in, so they have no compassion for people who have to escape those places." "Look at how Trump is so sympathetic to those white people in South Africa, just because they're white, even though they aren't suffering at all."